I woke up satisfied but also not as centered as I would like. I am such a creature of habit and thrive on routine. Also being introverted I need my own company and my routine and work helps with this. I also have a drive to be productive. Feeling these needs unfulfilled I went to a quiet coffee shop and got stuck into my work. Only an hour in my phone started buzzing with my line contacts. I was doing my best not to answer, but the obsession with more dates was burning a hot flame. I had a break and thought about the situation. I wanted to make Bangkok my second home and spend 3-4 months a year there. To do that, I needed to work and keep a routine, so as not to burn out. I had this sense of responsibility. I felt like if I didn’t work and just chase girls it would be much harder for me to justify further trips – I also had financial goals. Bangkok was really only a stepping-stone to my main goal of spending a month at a time in Eastern Europe. I needed to work to achieve those goals.
Then I looked at the reality of the situation and recognized I had worked a lot for the couple months prior to this trip. I could actually afford 10 days of working just a few hours a day doing the minimum. I also recognized that the business opportunities that were now coming to me were the best of my life and was highly likely that I was attracting, and able to jump on these, from my new mindset daygame had given me. And I still had my commitment of seduction being my number one objective until Jan 2018.
For right or wrong in my head I had justified working less and chasing women more. I felt much better now and started replying and pinging all my leads to set up dates. That only took twenty minutes and then I was able to get back to work and feel like I had a productive enough day and didn’t have any work urgent or outstanding. I also felt better that I had given myself permission to only work part time and chase girls the rest of the time.
I couldn’t get an afternoon date so went out for lunch and maybe some daygame. I already had an early evening date booked with the Chinese tourist I met on our first day. Tommy was busy dating so solo it was. I went to Siam Paragon food court and sat down to read my book and have my lunch. As I sat and got comfortable I noticed only a few seats away was Tommy on his date. Haha, small world. I texted him and he replied back saying he was almost finished. He said good-bye to his date and joined me. I welcomed the company. I had fulfilled my introverted needs by spending the morning on my own, now at about 2pm in the afternoon I was ready for some company again.
We debriefed each other on our dates and discussed theories on the girls here. We had become good friends through daygame. We had little competition like I hear can happen with wings and we were both very different with skills in different areas. I was bolder and more sexual in approach and escalation and Tommy was more of a natural at seduction and was able to give a lot more comfort. He got laid more than me, and had a much better number close ratio, in Brisbane, but I suspected it was his higher SMV. Here in BKK our SMV’s didn’t seem as far apart and we were having similar results on the street, mine slightly better due to my higher approach rate. We did a few sets but mostly just enjoyed each others company. As daygame wings the most fun we have together is out daygaming.
We were both tired, had a few numbers each, and had dates booked in an hour or so, so called it a day and headed back to the hotel to relax before our dates. I watched some UFC in my room and waited for my date to message me. I figured she would be late, because she’s a woman, and mitigated this by having here meet me across the road from my hotel and telling her to message me when she was five minutes away. She messaged and I went over and met her. This was my first daygame open of the trip and the one that Tommy said he wish he had on video. She was so open and available. She was also really hot, a solid 8. I met her and she had lost all the humility and openness of when I first met her a few days earlier. She said she was hungry and so was I so I walked her to a ramen noodle place I had been to before and enjoyed. She just gave me the shits, her English was fine, but she made no effort to speak clearly so I had to ask her to keep repeating herself. Often I still had now idea what she was saying so I gave up asking her to repeat herself and thought probably not that interesting anyway.
This was the third date I had had with a Chinese girl and I found them all really weird in a similar way that I couldn’t completely identify. I recognized that they were a third of the worlds population and a third of the world couldn’t be weird, so it was my perception and lack of understanding, but I wasn’t in an understanding mood and I thought “fuck you, you spoilt little bitch”. And just put her in the “weird Chinese” category in my mind and went on eating my ramen giving up on making any more effort in communication. She was pretty enough to look at and the noodles were good, so I would just eat and look and give up on talking. There I sat thinking this is a bit weird, this very hot 23 year old sitting in front of me and I’m barely attracted to her at all. Intellectually I knew that if I got her clothes off and was fucking her, with her submitting to me, I would enjoy it, but sitting there I felt no desire at all. It felt good being a chooser and knowing that the next date and fuck was just around the corner. It felt good being an 8 and being able to be discerning.
She noticed my change and starting asking questions, which I answered politely and in detail, but couldn’t be bothered offering much else to the conversation and certainly gave up on any “date” or “escalation” model. I finished my meal and paid for us both and said. “I should walk you to your cab” She looked a bit surprised, but not shocked, and said ok. She continued to ask me questions and asked if I still lived with my parents. She had already asked my age, which I told her the truth, 41, so I said. “Do 41 year old live with their parents in China?” She gave me some mumbled answer I couldn’t hear and then I just went on to make fun of her for thinking I lived with my parents. It was part push to create attraction, but mostly just to tease her about being a stupid Chinese cunt.
I walked her to the taxi rank, which was just opposite my hotel and said goodbye. It wasn’t awkward, but I could tell she felt a bit rejected, later I was to regret not at least testing the sexual waters and inviting her up to my room to escalate hard and try and get her naked. It was good to experience pushing more, now I just need to be less emotional and keep my eyes on the game of cock in puss. I messaged Tommy to say “date to nowhere” who replied the same so we met up and went to the movies. It was nice to see a movie with a mate and go home on my own, and forget about game for a few hours. As it turned out it was the last night I would be on my own for the rest of the trip.