Yesterday I was not looking forward to daygame and didn’t want to go out. All my leads had dropped off and I was starting to feel like I was back at step one. My daygame session the day before had been unfruitful, doing 12 approaches and only getting one flakey number and very little interaction in any of my sets, most of them blowing me off, saying they had a boyfriend.
But today, because of my commitment to daygame I did some yoga (my daygame preparation) , got dressed, put on aftershave, gel in my hair, hit the streets, and got into the best vibe I have ever been in for daygame. After an hour my frame and vibe became so strong that I got into a strong interaction and number close with the last 4/5 approaches.
After 10 approaches I was tired because I had had about 6 or 7 strong 10 minute interactions and just couldn’t be bothered going through the “daygame model” and meeting anyone else. But my vibe was still so strong. I have only felt like this a couple of other times in daygame, and only ever with a wing. I decided I had had a good sarge and wouldn’t approach any more, unless I really just couldn’t help myself, and started to walk home.
Nearly every girl I passed made eye contact with me or noticed me in their periphery. I just stood out so much more. It was either my energy, or I suspect my micro expressions, something very subtle about my walk and the way I held myself, that didn’t feel any different to me. These micro expressions/body language are so subtle that there is no way I could fake them, I’m only vaguely familiar with what they are. The only way I can produce them is from mind-set.
I saw a vision of the future. This is a state I can get into more and more regularly the more I do daygame. I didn’t feel very different at all, I just felt more confident and attractive, more noticeable and strong. My frame was so strong that girls would totally accept me stopping them in the street and would feel compelled to interact with me. I might be able to get into this state 75% of the time I do daygame. It didn’t feel any higher energy required and I wasn’t tired afterwards like what can happen when you hit “flow” state.
One of the biggest changes of this sarge was that I was able to stop a girl walking off. I had seen lots of video footage of guys saying things like. “One last question before you go”, and actually getting the girl to stay for another ten minutes and number close her. Up until now this had never happened to me, any time I had got them to stay for “one last question” I had only managed to squeeze a few more sentences out of them and never get them to hook. But this sarge I finally turned that corner and at least four of them were in a hurry to get somewhere and two of them started walking off, but my strong frame kept them there and/or got them to come back.
Unfortunately none of them really hooked and none have returned my first text. It appears they were just compelled to be there, and enjoyed being overwhelmed, by my strong frame. Still, this feels like a milestone for me and if I can keep getting into this vibe then my learning will start becoming exponential because now I am getting into strong interactions with women and I can start to work on my sticking point of not getting them to hook. If I can get better at having them hook, then I am hoping my numbers will be less flakey and I will get more dates and ultimately lays.