I’m walking to Coles to buy a couple things and notice a tiny brown skinned girl who at first looks like she could be only 15. Her body is a 10 and her skin so smooth. My dirty old man programming kicks in and I am too apprehensive to approach her in case she is 15. But none the less I watch the way she walks and she has this unique swagger to her hips, like a cowboy, or in this case cowgirl, incredibly sexy.
Fortuitously she walks into Coles and I follow, but I am still not prepared to approach until I see her face. We meander about the fresh food and bread section near the entrance where she turns around and I get a good look at her face. She is not a baby and at least 20.
Now I just need to approach. I have avoided this fresh food section of Coles for my approaches because it is too open and lots of people can look. I feel much more protected in the aisles where there is fewer people.
Say What I See
I had already thought about her sexy walk and beautiful skin. So lets just go and tell her. There wasn’t too many people around so it felt pretty easy going in.
“Excuse me. I saw you over there and thought you looked really nice, I noticed you had a real swagger to your walk” She smiles and looks at me receptively and says something with a strong European accent that intimates for me to explain further.
I sort of botch it and just repeat myself. And ask where she is from and if she likes Brisbane and all that boring shit that my inner chodenees does to build some comfort. When I ask is she studying she says not anymore and is now trying to start a business, something to do with leather. Her accent was too strong for me to really understand and I didn’t want to keep asking her to repeat herself.
I then spike it up and say “You know when I saw you, I could only see you from the back and thought you were really sexy, but weren’t sure if you were only 15 or something because I had only seen you from behind. It wasn’t till we were in Coles and I saw your face and I realized it was ok to approach you” She qualifies herself to assure me she wasn’t 15.
I decide to qualify her further and ask her if she is travelling on her own or with a boyfriend, she says she is travelling with her friend but she is moving to Sydney in 2 days. This always turns me on because I feel like there is a time limit to fuck her and it has just taken boyfriend option off the table. If she wants any sort of relationship with me it is “lover”.
At this point I spike it up a bit and give her sexy eyes and say. “I have only just met you and now you are moving to Sydney…. So we only have 2 days.” She smiles back and I go for the number saying. “I know you will be busy, but give me your number and I will message you and if you have some time we can get a drink”
She gives me the number. Rather than ejecting right away I continue the conversation and ask her about her plans in Sydney and she says it is something to do with her business which has already been hard to explain, so rather than harping on it I use this to my advantage and say “you can tell me more about it when we have a drink”
What I did well
I approached with a smile and said what I saw. I made it unique to her and got her interest. After a bit of comfort I spiked it up and made her know my intent while not being too intense. I went for her number in a non needy way and didn’t just bail once I had but continued the rapport and got her to visualize us being out on a date together.
What I could have done better
The approach could have been more creative and flowery. “Excuse me. I saw you over there and thought you looked really nice, but noticed you had a real swagger to your walk. It made me think of an Argentinian cowgirl. I could imagine you riding through the plains with your cowgirl hat, cigarette in one hand, leather whip hanging loosely on your hip” And brush her hip ever so slightly with my fingers.
I also may not have given the set enough time for her to feel she knows me enough to come on a date.