By Monday I’m starting to get into a groove now. I’ve worked out where the coffee shops I like are and where I can work, and am enjoying the city more than I thought I would. The busyness doesn’t feel at all claustrophobic and I stay out of the traffic by using the skytrain. The Thais annoy me in their slow service and inability to be flexible, looking at you like you are crazy because you want to adjust their recipe of a fruit smoothy so it has just fruit and not the 99% sugar syrup they want to add, but I just be the demanding farang and eventually get what I want. Today I’ve got a date booked for 4pm and still plenty of leads to book an evening date. As routine now, I finish my work about lunch time and go out for lunch and daygaming with Tommy.
We are both in a good vibe and getting plenty of numbers. He sees a very hot wandering girl and encourages me to approach. “There’s a gazelle”. He says. We use the term gazelle to identify a wandering girl who has strayed away from the pack and made herself vulnerable to be picked off by the predators like us.
She was wearing a t-shirt exposing her incredibly slim stomach, and that was pretty much all I saw. She was as open to approach as she looked and was very keen for an instant date. She was from Taiwan and had a couple of days on her own in Bangkok while waiting for her family to arrive. I was tempted to do the instant date, but was in such a good vibe with Tommy that I wanted to collect more numbers and I had a date in an hour, so took the PUA advice of don’t do an instant date unless you can pull for a SDL. I took her number and suggested we meet in a few hours.
Tommy and I continued our sarge and then I met my date. She was short and round, much too heavy for me, perfect for Tommy, but still very fuckable. She was from Philippines and here teaching English. She was barely a 6 in my books, but had a nice nature and I was attracted to her. I knew I wouldn’t want to fuck her more than once, but could imagine getting her in doggy and grabbing that big arse and thrashing her. That sounded like a fun afternoon. Now I think about it I was more attracted to Jun the Philippine 6 than I was to the Chinese 8, whose name I can’t even remember now.
I took Jun for a fruit smoothy at the café 20 meters from my hotel and run my date model. First I let her site opposite me and then after 2 minutes suggested she sit next to me. I did a kino and verbal escalation and got her to open up about her past relationships and view on sex, asking questions like “Do you want to kiss me?” without any attempt on my part to kiss. She was giving answers like, “I need time” etc. to fuck someone, but I was confident having banged Amy on Saturday night after she had said very similar things.
We finished our drinks and I suggested she come and hang out in my hotel room. Jun agreed and I felt like I was just going through the motions and would be balls deep within the hour. I was actually looking pretty forward to it, although not stunning, she had a good energy, nice skin, and pretty face. She followed me, but was walking really slowly. I figured she was just nervous, so didn’t take much notice. We got to my room and I put some music on and lay on the bed while Jun sat on the seat. We spoke and relaxed and I went a bit quiet to create some tension. Then after a little while I suggested she come and join me on the bed. She declined and I didn’t make a big deal out of it. I asked her again in five minutes and she still declined and started talking about needing to go and some made up excuse she had. I said I understood and would walk her downstairs whenever she needed to go. I thought I had got her pretty close but she needed more comfort so might be better to play nice and get her another afternoon. She worked at an international school only a few stations away so could come and visit me most afternoons.She eventually stood up to get ready to leave so I walked her to the BTS just near my hotel. I gave her a bit of a hug and a kiss on the cheek as she left. I could have tried harder, but think I played it right be making it nice to see her another day. I was getting sick of her and there was going to be too much LMR to get a late afternoon lay. She messaged me later that night to say “thanks again” and I replied saying “I enjoyed your company. We can do again this week”. She then replied saying “Thanks for being nice”. I took the last message to mean thanks for not escalating too hard and giving me the comfort and time I need. I never did end up texting her back, until I got back to Australia, as I was busy every afternoon, maybe next time.
She eventually stood up to get ready to leave so I walked her to the BTS just near my hotel. I gave her a bit of a hug and a kiss on the cheek as she left. I could have tried harder, but think I played it right be making it nice to see her another day. I was getting sick of her and there was going to be too much LMR to get a late afternoon lay. She messaged me later that night to say “thanks again” and I replied saying “I enjoyed your company. We can do again this week”. She then replied saying “Thanks for being nice”. I took the last message to mean thanks for not escalating too hard and giving me the comfort and time I need. I never did end up texting her back, until I got back to Australia, as I was busy every afternoon, maybe next time.
Once she left I messaged the Taiwanese “gazelle”, Sim, and invited her to meet me for dinner. I met her at the same spot I had met Jun just a couple hours earlier and we went and had dinner in the food court of Siam Paragon. She was very friendly and warm, but somewhat stand offish. She was educated and easy to talk to, and I enjoyed her company. I was also very attracted to her and wanted to get laid. I didn’t feel my date to lay ratio was great and hoped this trip would tip my ratio to the better side. It wasn’t to be. After dinner I gave her the choices of alcohol or tea and she chose tea so I said there is a nice quiet café near my hotel a 5 minute walk away. She agreed and off we went to where I had a smoothy with Jun. That place was closed so I took her to the café in the hotel next door to mine.
This became kind of humorous and added somewhat to the date adventure. When we walked in there was a stage with a microphone and a piano and a whole family up there looking like they were getting prepared to perform. There was no one else in the café except the staff. Perplexed, I went to the bar and asked what was going on. They either didn’t understand me, or pretended not to, and asked what I would like to drink. I deferred the answer and chose a nice big comfy couch and sat down with Sim. Leaning back I explained. “This is just what I had in mind. A nice big couch where I could sit next to you and chill while we drink tea – but I’m just a bit unsure about what’s going to happen with that music” Then they started playing and they were as awful as I suspected they would be. We looked at each other trying not to laugh and both got up and walked out.
I took her across the road to the big shopping center and went to Starbucks. I got her into a little bit of a bubble, she liked me, but just not enough, I just wasn’t able to get her hot and horny enough. We finished our tea and I walked her towards my hotel where she said goodbye and went to the BTS instead of my room. I went to bed for the second night in a row with no pussy. I’ll go and pay for a fuck tomorrow I thought.