I have consumed a lot of Ross Jeffries videos and books and have decided to experiment with this path in terms of getting through women’s defenses and into that place where you are connected emotionally. Basically where all the love chemicals are released and you look into each dilated eyes and you can feel a real magic.
These language patterns or “hypnosis” are really just interesting stories or games that take the girl exactly where she wants to be taken. I have practiced a few of these on girls I was not really that attracted to and had a very positive effect, they didn’t jump my bones then and there, but they certainly wanted more, and seemed disappointed when I said good bye and walked away. I couldn’t tell if I had turned them on, but I could tell that I had made them comfortable with me and wanting more.
In my daygame I have found it good to get a very low investment instant date with a girl I get a positive response from. It’s so low investment, they don’t even know they are on a date with me. I ask if they would like to sit down with me for minute and I just guide them to a public seating area, which is normally no more than 10-20 metres away.
I was in the city and saw a cute little Hispanic looking girl wandering very slowly looking at her phone, I followed her for a few meters and approached. She was into me and although a bit unsure, she followed me to the public seating not far away.
As we spoke I noticed features of her I didn’t like and she had bad breath, but instead of saying nice to meet you and walking away I decided to try some language patterns. I thought I would try twin “Twin Brothers”.
As a transition to get her into this topic I asked if she had had an Australian boyfriend. Visitors with English as their second language usually make some comment about their lack of English. I find it easy to transition from this to “Have you ever had an Australian boyfriend” it’s no doubt the best way for them to improve their English so highly relevant and appropriate, but also personal and starting to chip away at their sexual defenses to get to their romantic core.
She said no but she had been with a man in Columbia for a number of years before she had to leave him to come here, and that that was hard. Bingo, we were talking about relationships and romance.
“Let’s play a game to see what sort of man you like.” “Say there are two guys walking towards us here that you were really attracted to (I draw a frame around my face with my fingers and tap myself gently on the chest), and they are twin brothers, they are identical in every way, except the first one is an incredible dancer” I sway my body and move my hands a little, “the way he moves really turns you on” I say slowly with piercing eye contact and then look away”
“The other one has incredible hands, when he touches you..” with the back of my hand I slide it down her forearm just barely touching “you feel really good inside. And he gives the most incredible massages. Who do you choose?” “The dancer” she says with a smile. “I agree, I think you can really tell a lot about a person by the way they move” I could have gone more sexual here and made more of a parallel between dancing and sexual prowess, but I was a bit nervous and was trying to remember the second part of the game.
“Ok, now for the second test” She looks at me eagerly, this is actually pretty interesting to her, and why not? Getting to feel these feelings. “The first one is really funny, he makes you laugh all the time, but the second one is…” now I move to piercing eye contact and speak really slowly “an… amazing… kisser” As I say “kisser” I look from her eyes to her mouth and then back up to her eyes again.
She recognizes the tension I have created and pulls away just a little. “The funny one” she says. “Not the kisser?” I ask, as I look at her lips again. Not waiting for an answer, I break the tension a bit by saying, “I agree, humour is really important”. “And if someone is funny and makes you feel really good inside, and there is come chemistry then kissing should just come natural.” I say with not too much intensity and she agrees and I can see her relax a little and lean back towards me.
“Ok, the last one. The first guy is super rich, he can buy you anything you want, but the second one makes you… ” again nice and slow “feel… like the most… important… woman in the world. When you are with him you know that his entire energy is on you and he is not thinking of anything else”. “The second one” she says. This time she doesn’t back away at all and I can see a really softening in her cheeks and eyes.
As I said, I’m not really that into her so don’t feel right pushing further or escalating, so check my phone and make good on the false time constraint I used earlier saying I was waiting for a friend and tell her they are now waiting for me and I better go. I left without offering to exchange numbers or a date etc. and she looked a bit disappointed and confused. At the very least using the language patterns hadn’t hurt my chances with her.
My friend that’s good with girls
The next day I approached a Nepalese women, she was very timid and didn’t say much but I I guided her to a bench seat close by. On closer inspection she didn’t do it for me either but I jumped straight into the twin brothers routine. It went very similar to the first one, but instead of ejecting I followed up with another language pattern that was an easy transition.
I don’t know if this one has a name, but it is adapted from Ross Jeffries work and was something I like and had memorized a few times and even made it about my flat mates so it felt more real. I’ll call it, “My friend that’s good with girls”. It was pretty easy to remember as I have done a number of self-hypnosis audio meditations, which I love, and this pattern was a bit like those and I assume a very basic pattern into how to take someone into a simple trance.
After the Nepalese lady said she chose the twin brother that made her feel like the most important woman in the world. I said, “You know, it’s funny you say that. My house mate is really good with girls, all the women love him, and I was just talking with his girlfriend, and asked what was the big deal, why was Josh so popular with the women. And do you know what she said?” I just looked at her here creating a bit of anticipation and getting her into a state of wanting more.
“She said, that when she first went out with him, that she was sitting there talking to him, and she was looking into his eyes, and as she could here his deep, slow and steady voice, and watch his lips move as he spoke and see his chest rise up and down, she noticed her own body, she could feel arms touching the sides of her body and could feel her bottom touching the seat and she felt really present. Hearing his voice, watching him speak, she realized that he made her feel like the most important woman in the world. And she knew that whenever he wanted it she would be his. And they have been together ever since.”
She smiled, but didn’t react too much, and I wasn’t even sure how it went. We then spoke about some other stuff I can’t remember and the next thing I know she won’t shut up, she’s telling me all about herself and completely changed from the timid woman of a few words I had originally met.
I suspect that getting through to her emotional core like I had and getting her to think of the one dream that she most desires, a man that makes her feel like the most important woman in the world, she had become very comfortable with me very quickly. Again I wasn’t into her, so I made an excuse and left.
So for experiment number 1 and 2 language patterns gets the thumbs up. Lets see how it goes with a girl I am really attracted to.