I am part of a closed FB group where one of the members in his forties shared about his experience of having a younger girlfriend heavily pregnant and how that will affect his relationship and daygaming in the future. He states he wants to continue daygaming, but is concerned if it will affect his new child's upbringing. Some of the replies felt very blue pill, fear-based, and even white knighty - saying that daygame would become and bone of contention, his girlfriend would demand exclusivity … [Read more...]

Friday night is big and I suspected we would have a good crew of guys as we did. Walking into the city I didn’t feel the vibe. I had done too much number farming that week, without much success, I just couldn’t be bothered with the grind, but instant an date and pushing for the SDL intrigued me. This changed my mindset significantly. I began to screen girls with this filter. Usually that would mean casual clothes, backpack, wandering eyes and sexy walk, but it’s not a science and my intuition … [Read more...]

As the rabbit hole of daygame continues and I lam forced to look at my value as a man I can see that I have been setting goals the wrong way, at least for me. My goals were always too long and too outcome dependent. I discovered this quite by accident. It was said in the pick up community that you needed two years to get good at daygame. It was October 2015, so I arbitrarily chose January 2018 as the time it would take me to get good. I realized getting good at seduction was the most … [Read more...]

Rainy day yesterday, but I made the most of it with work, exercise and reading. Then about 4pm my body just propelled me to go for a walk. There was no plan and I didn’t even know where I was going. I remember this happening in Chiang Mai among other times – just let the Gods guide me. I turn towards the city and feel in a good mood, not many single girls out because of the weather, but I feel ok to approach if the desire comes in me. I get to Southbank and the pedestrian lights go green so I … [Read more...]

Still second-guessing myself about my career path. I feel like I have never achieved what I set out to and part of my initiation as a man is to finish and get to a point where I feel successful in business. An early teenage memory was staying at a family friends farm and the patriarch, John, was preparing the fire in the lounge room. He was one of my dad’s 2 best friends, the other one a multi-millionaire by this stage, my dad being well on the way to his first million before he died at age … [Read more...]

Part of my daygame journey has been looking at what I need to do to make me into a strong masculine man. At first I thought this could be achieved from shortcuts like hypnosis and meditation. I have done these and had some benefits, but they are really only useful as stepping-stones. I now see a big part of masculinity is being an accomplished man. Not just the outward signs of accomplishments – certificates, awards, status, wealth, but the experience of having gone through the trials and … [Read more...]