Daygame can be tough. The amount of rejections you have to go through to get good at daygame is pretty full on and this can take it’s toll. I mostly hear beginner advice online about grinding and putting in the hours to overcome approach anxiety. I believe this is only half the truth, keep in mind a lot of this advice is from people wanting to sell training materials and it’s their job to show off their indifference to rejection and if you buy their product you too will have zero approach … [Read more...]

Being single and dedicating myself to become a master seducer, and getting proficient at daygame is something I have doubts about regularly. Sometimes I think it’s just sex and love addiction, rather than getting really good with women. Would I be better off just settling for one woman and putting my energy into committing to monogamy? Instead of spending so much energy on chasing, and learning how to chase, women, I could invest that energy into my kids, my business, my community etc. … [Read more...]

I have consumed a lot of Ross Jeffries videos and books and have decided to experiment with this path in terms of getting through women’s defenses and into that place where you are connected emotionally. Basically where all the love chemicals are released and you look into each dilated eyes and you can feel a real magic. These language patterns or “hypnosis” are really just interesting stories or games that take the girl exactly where she wants to be taken. I have practiced a few of these on … [Read more...]

At around 150 approaches I have had 3 dates with women that I was attracted to enough to girlfriend. And I failed at each attempt. By the third I think I can start to see where I am failing. I met her from an approach in Coles, she had obviously just thrown something on quickly to go to the shops and was wearing this low cut dress, no bra and no makeup, she looked so amazing and natural and my blood boiled. We will call her Jess. Fortuitously I saw her on her own in the chocolate isle (my … [Read more...]

I had connected with a guy I had met through an online forum who was doing daygame and he invited me to meet him in the city and do some approaches. At this stage I still hadn’t approached any girls, especially in the direct manner that daygame seemed to be suitable for. I had done plenty of research and watched lots of videos and it appeared that everyone was doing the “Yad” stop. The yad stop is where the girl is walking and you jog past her, turn around, and stop in her tracks saying " … [Read more...]

Like a lot of daygamers I am very introverted. Being introverted doesn’t mean I’m shy or scared of public events, it just means I recharge emotionally on my own. I love social events and need people and company in my life, it’s just that I also need a lot of time on my own. Extroverts on the other hand tend to recharge their batteries around friends and loved ones and are energized by people. Discovering this was a real awakening and being able to embrace my introversion and spend quality … [Read more...]

One of the first things I recognized that put me behind the eight ball in getting confident with women was the way I dressed and looked. I had dressed in a conservative way that would allow me blend into the crowd, give me some professionalism as a business owner in front of customers and suppliers, and most of all was comfortable. I shaved daily out of habit, but mostly comfort, because it got itchy if I didn’t shave. I cut my own hair with clippers to save money and time, and bought most of … [Read more...]