Walking on the beach the other day during my daygame recovery I had what felt at the time like an epiphany. These words just started playing themselves over and over in my mind. “Find what I enjoy the most – become good at it – and share it with others”
There is a stigma to pick-up artist and I will have to live with that in the world around me, but there is also a stigma within me. Deep down I feel it is too hedonistic to be a truly worthwhile pursuit let alone occupation, so I can see why I chose to “label” myself a writer that writes about these topics.
What I enjoy most
The mating dance with a woman, that initial stage of attraction where there is a glint in her eye and I can feel my masculine energy overwhelming her feminine energy, and how this turns her on and makes me even more masculine. Although there is tension and I am part of me is nervous I am also tapping into a deeper part of me that actually becomes calmer. As the love chemicals start to flow I actually feel more relaxed, in the moment and in control. Flow.
Then the progression of the women from suspicion, curiosity, attraction, lust, willingness, and then the after sex glow where she is full of “after sex chemicals” and looks at me completely differently. I love that look and I love the progression that got us there. In fact that progression is actually better when it is spread out over a few hours or even days.
And then follow-up sex and getting to know each other more physically, emotionally and mentally and allowing this to run it’s course until her pair-bonding chemicals kick in and she starts to want to test me as a suitable “provider” instead of “lover” and then we have to part ways either temporarily or permanently.
This is a beautiful process. There can be some lows and complications, but these are minor compared to the highs. When it’s deep connection I am after on many levels rather than just random sex it does make it so much more meaningful and learning how to get this regularly, like at least once a fortnight is my mission.
Become Good At It and Share It With Others
The best in the world might sound a bit unrealistic, but if I can be the best in the world at “me”. Become the best in the world for someone with my age, my looks and my intellect. If I can do that then I will have an abundance of sexual opportunities. Paul Janka claims he fucks 11% of the girls whose phone numbers he gets. When I read that I thought it was a bit low, but now I would kill for that close rate. If I could get to 10%, then we are looking at a new girl in my bed every 1-2 weeks.
And if I could do that then through my writing, audio and video I could help others.