Beginning of April I was out doing some daygame. My vibe wasn’t great, I was mostly getting blowouts, and considering calling it a day. When my vibe is low like this I am not really attracted to many girls walking past. It’s like there are no hot girls around, but the reality is it’s my perception and mood. I was sitting there in one of the busiest parts of Queen St Mall on Saturday afternoon and pondering how sometimes my brain is just pinging with approach opportunities and other times no girls do it for me. I really can’t believe it’s the crowd, I’ve been here other Saturdays, it must be more my perception and vibe.
Then a tall Asian walks past with a swagger, she is skinny in an athletic way and wearing short denin shorts, I can see her toned legs. She draws some desire from my cold heart and I run after her and approach. I tell her she looks like a cowgirl with her little boots and denin shorts and we vibe for a bit before she takes off to meet her friend for lunch. There was nothing super-electric about the set, but I liked her and certainly wanted to fuck that skinny arse given half a chance.
We messaged a bit over the next few weeks, both not being free on the same day, but finally got her out on a date at the end of April. We met in the city and as usual my plan was a quick drink in the open bar/café in the city and then walk over the bridge towards my place to another bar within 50 meters of my place and then the bounce to my bedroom.
She looked nice, but conservative, she had not dressed to look sexy. In fact she didn’t look as sexy as when I first met her, but I knew that tidy body was under there. I gave her a kiss on the cheek and walked her to our first venue. We got onto the questions game quickly and after easing her in by asking. “If you could wake up anywhere in the world, where would you wake up tomorrow morning?”. I can’t remember her answer. I asked her to tell me a secret about herself. She said she didn’t have anything to tell and put it back onto me so I told her I liked choking girls softly when I fuck them. Since bangkok-19-year-old-daygame-day-lay this is pretty much my go to secret when playing this game.
I then put it back on her and she said she liked big dicks. It was only 15 minutes into the date and the conversation had already got very sexual so I decided to pull back and work on comfort and more implied sexuality. We spoke of more normal topics and I got her to relax a bit more. She asked me why I stopped her and I said I liked the way she walked and shape of her body, I said she reminded me of grey hound – long and slender, which she liked
She agreed to come to the next bar with me in Southbank over the bridge and I thought everything was going pretty good. The 10 minute walk was nice and we were vibing and even kept “accidentally” bumping into each other as we walked. I bought her a beer and guided her to sit next to me, which she complied with, but for some reason I was having trouble escalating. We were sitting next to each other on the couch but there was a gap between us and I had lost my nerve to close it. I didn’t really know what was wrong with me, she didn’t intimidate me, and we had started the date so sexual. She just didn’t give much away and didn’t make it easy for me. It was my job to seduce and her job to put up barriers, and I was failing.
We finished our drinks and I said. “Come on let’s go” and got up. She followed and as we got the street she asked “Where are we going?” “My place is just up the road, let’s go and hand out here and we can listen to the music you mentioned ”.
“No, I’m not coming back to your place” She said. “Ok”, I replied and gave her a hug goodbye. I pulled her in tight without going for the kiss, just looking at her and I could feel her lithe torso against mine, and small, firm tits pushing up against my chest. It really turned me on and I said. “You really are a greyhound, I can feel how toned your body is, and your small firm tits” She looked a little shocked, but laughed.
I wouldn’t let her go, now having some courage to escalate and really wanting to fuck her. “Come on, my place is so close, I want to spend some more time with you”. “No, I can’t go to your place tonight” She replied. I let her go and we said our good byes.
I walked home knowing I had fucked up. I had over escalated, under escalated and then over escalated again. It was not smooth, not controlled and not calibrated to the situation. Never the less it appeared that she liked me and agreed to another date a couple weeks later.
We met at Southbank and went and had ribs for dinner. I flirted with the sexy black waitress, who I’ve been meaning to go back and number close, but haven’t yet, and made a point just to enjoy myself. The dinner was awesome – I love ribs, and I felt very comfortable in her presence, she was a nice chick. After dinner we went and had ice-cream and sat side by side with our legs touching. I didn’t feel the need to escalate, we were in a nice vibe, a little touching and sharing ice-cream, but I just felt it was best to keep my foot only half on the accelerator.
After ice-cream I invited her to come to my place, but again she declined. I didn’t really care. I had had a nice time and figured I would fuck her with out much trouble when she was ready. I was very right!
A week later we arranged to meet on a Friday night. She said she was working till 8, so it had to be after 8.30, but then on the night she said she had to go home first so made it 9.30. I got her to agree to meet me less than a five minute walk from my house, which was a twenty minute bus ride for her, so I figured it was pretty on. She tried to de-rail the train a little giving me a few texts saying she thought it was too late for me and I would be tired, but I just batted them away with “I’m ok”.
I went to meet her and she was at our meeting spot waiting for me. It was a cold evening and she was wearing a heavy overcoat, but underneath was a denim mini-skirt. She was sitting down as I approached and I could see her red knickers under her skirt. This looks promising. I thought . Noting how cold it was, but she had gone to the discomfort of looking so sexy. And she did, she had great long toned legs.
I walked her to a café and she ordered a meal, which I made her pay for, while I ordered a drink. We sat and talked while she ate her pizza. I gave her space since I never like escalating while a girl is eating. Once her diner was finished I casually rubber her back and neck. She seemed to like the neck rub, so I gave her more of a massage. We weren’t particularly emotionally close, nor had much to talk about, but I think we were both pretty horny, and were starting to feel pretty comfortable in each others presence.
We left the café and as we were walking I directed her into my street and said. “Come and see my house” She said. “No”, but I just grabbed her arm and said “Come on” and she followed. We got inside my room and I gave her a bit of space, she said no to a drink, but sat on my bed with me without complaint. After talking for a bit, she said. “I need to go” and I replied “You can go whenever you want” and then just kept talking. After another few minutes she got up and said. “I should go”. “Ok” I replied and then grabbed her and pulled her down onto the bed. She didn’t fight it so I stared kissing her, which she also didn’t fight, but didn’t kiss me back to passionately either.
She was hard to read, but I had her on my bed, so decided to go for it and pulled down her top and kissed her chest and then down to her breasts. She was good with that, so I lifted up her top and started to kiss her toned, flat belly and then pushed it right up to kiss and suck on her small firm tits. I pushed my hand between her legs. Since she was wearing only a mini skirt the only thing in front of me was her silky thin knickers which I moved the side to rub her wet pussy. I wanted to taste it, so I went down and pushed her undies to the side and started licking her.
We started to strip off our clothes and I gave her a proper head job and then lay down on the bed. “My turn?” She said. I guided her head down to my cock and she gave a surprisingly good head-job. I pulled her up towards me to hop on my cock and she asked if I had a condom. I open the draw next to me and got one out and put it on the bed next to us. I then pulled her up on me so I could run my raw cock on her pussy and hope to get her horny enough to stick it in with no condom.
She played along for a bit, but then asked for the condom again so I grabbed it and pulled it out of it’s packet and gave it to her. She looked a bit unsure, but I said. “You can work it out” She put the condom on and then guided my cock into her pussy. It was nice and tight and I enjoyed watching her ride me. I threw her around the bed for the next 30 minutes and it was fun but mostly forgettable.
After I came I wanted to lie down with her and rest for 10 minutes. I’ve heard, and experienced, it’s good for the pair bonding chemicals to take hold – I wanted to keep her coming back. But she got up and got dressed and said she had to go. I walked her to the bus stop and said goodbye, and walked home just happy to have got the lay.