I get in late to Phuket and message K, he is out with Steve doing the night clubs, but without a sim card yet it’s a bit hard to connect. Besides it’s been a big days travel, I just want a massage and a fuck so I go for a walk and pick a cute massage girl who services me perfectly for 1000BHT. I get a good nights sleep and did some work in the morning, then went and got my Thai SIM card and a massage with one of my online leads. She was ok, but I didn’t like her that much and I sensed she was more of a “professional”. Still she said she wanted to hang out with me, when she wasn’t working.
Next was a coffee date from online at 3pm, she wasn’t that hot either, and when we had the talk she was also there in a professional capacity. It’s a challenge to convert these girls, and they’re not even that hot. My assessment is that there is more money to be made in Phuket, but the cost of living and travel is higher, than Pataya. Also there are less kept women here. They are either not as good looking, or really good looking and highly professional. Whereas is Pataya the kept women are hotter and easier to seduce for free.
The girl on the coffee date was on the border of whether she was going to fuck me for free. She has since texted me so seems keen. Twenty minutes into the date K texts me and is across the road at Starbucks, so I wrap up the date and go and join him and Steve. They are friendly to me and I feel very comfortable. I’m not really intimidated like I thought I might be. I lack the power distance around men that I do around women I feel “above” me. I just don’t feel this with men, which is a good thing as I hope it can transfer to women.
Sitting there listening to them was surreal. It was like I was watching a youtube video. Steve was rattling on enthusiastically about his content business and Krauser was then breaking it down in a symbolic representation of arbitrage. It was really weird, but I was relaxed and just enjoyed watching them. I was happy with the way I behaved. I didn’t talk too much, asked a few lightly challenging questions I was genuinely interested in, and presented my point of view with humility. I was a little bit too eager to share my own experience in business and marketing, but it was pretty relevant, and only slightly over-egged, and I spoke to fast because I wanted to get my point across and didn’t feel they would listen if I spoke for too long.
I could understand what Krauser meant in his writings about how Steve’s frame is so strong. The conversation kept going back to his topic. I encouraged Krauser to share about his new products he wanted to invest in, because I was less interested in Steve’s internet marketing and more interested in K’s product. Steve would bring the topic back to how it related to his business. This was done in softly dominant way with calibration. I liked his energy a lot. K’s energy was a lot harder.
We moved to another bar and had some dinner and spoke about a range of topics. I was more interested in seduction and how it related to the nuances of Thai culture. Krauser’s talk on race was interesting enough, but not as enjoyable for me. I didn’t disagree with anything he said about race issues, it just didn’t interest me as much. Call me shallow, but I prefer lighter hearted topics, having fun, being relaxed, and telling interesting tales.
I was tired after spending a couple hours with them and we spoke about going out to the night club that night. I thought this would be fun to see the boys in action and wanted to go out more to experience this than getting laid myself. I thought it would be best to have a sleep first, but I didn’t want to do that and them not want to go out. So I asked K if they were going out to which he tersely replied that he didn’t know yet. I realized I had overstepped my place and he felt he didn’t want to be pinned down by me. Fair enough, I can identify well with that feeling when travelling with friends let alone someone I don’t even know that just invited them selves to join me on my holiday. I thought it was a good time to quit while I was ahead so said I was going to have a rest and maybe catch up with them later.
Had a bit of a sleep and K messaged me to meet them at 10.30. We went to a few bars and had a bite to eat. The first thing I noticed as the way they walk. K swings his arms and is very exaggerated. It looks pretty natural, because I suspect he has been doing it for a long time. Steve just walks like a king, he is big and his posture is really good. It doesn’t look like he is trying either.
We walked around and went to a few bars. I was just really happy to be hanging out with these guys that were so successful in what I was trying to achieve. I was also happy to watch and learn. Watch how they handled the hookers in the gogo bars. Watch their charisma and frame control. They let the girls sit on their laps but didn’t buy drinks, so I did the same. I started to really enjoy myself. I felt like an outsider, because I didn’t know them, and obviously less knowledgeable and experienced, but I didn’t feel less than.
Next we went for dinner and it was just a nice meal with two cool guys. K’s frame took over the more they drank and Steve had more of a soft dominance. Disagreeing with K, but in a very nice and non-confrontational manner. He was obviously very at ease with himself. We went to another bar and the conversation became more intense with K going on a passionate tangent about his social political and race beliefs. Again his logic is impeccable and I agree with everything he says. I just don’t find it very interesting.
Next we go to the night club. Steve stands about a foot taller than everyone else and walks around like he is the manager just making sure everything is going smoothly. I ask K what he is doing, figuring it must be tacticle and he tells me “He is just scanning for IOI’s”. Not being used to club game, I am so overwhelmed by the lights and the noise I have no idea how you could even recognize an IOI in that environment.
We go to another club and we all do the managerial walk around the bar and to the dance floor. I have no idea what to expect so I just follow their body language and watch what they do. Steve walks down onto the dance floor and starts dancing in very slow subtle movements next to the hottest girl in the club. She comes right over to him and within 30 seconds he is kissing her and her friend on the dance floor. I’m blown away. Then he walks away. “Ok, well that’s how it’s done” I think to myself.
I pick out a girl I like the look off and go and stand next to her and push my hip into hers, she responds well so I play with her hair and touch her back, and then after a minute remember to roll off. I’ve got no idea what I’m doing, just following what Steve and Nick do. I find another girl I like the look of, do the same, and then another. I don’t quite get the point, but I’m having fun and just copying them. I lose Nick and Steve and I’m tired so consider going home, then I think I might as well try and pull one of these girls home. One is tangled up with some guy buying her drinks, the other two I liked are on the dance floor so I go up to the one I like the most and pull her into me, give overly aggressive sexual eyes and within a couple minutes we are kissing, she is not swallowing my face, but complying. I think fuck and say. “Let’s go”, she doesn’t even say “where?” and follows me to my room. The extraction is too easy so I figure she will ask for money. On my bed she asks if I will give her money and I say “Yes. I will pay 1000 THB”. I fuck her and she hoes home.
She messages me the next morning so I invite her for breakfast, to which she agrees. I give her the talk at breakfast that I don’t usually pay for sex and won’t be paying her anymore, she says ok and I take her home and fuck her. I message Krasuer and tell him my tale and he replies. “It’s still whoring, but I approve”.