I awoke a couple hours later and couldn’t get to sleep again so messaged Tommy to see what he was doing and he was already downstairs in the hotel café having coffee. I left my girl in bed and told her to sleep for as long as she wanted. Having coffee with Tommy we went over our nights Bangkok adventures and planned what we would do for the day. We were both jet lagged, but keen to explore the area and try out some Bangkok daygame. We arranged to meet back in the café in 30 minutes and hit the streets.
I went back to my room, checked emails, replied to anything important and got prepared for my first daygame session in Bangkok. I started to get excited, but then realized I’ve still got this girl in my bed. I didn’t really want her there and I didn’t like her enough to have her stay again unless I was having a dry spell. Luckily she started to stir and got out of bed and got ready to go without me having to say anything. We went down to the café together and I walked her out to the street and gave her a hug good bye. I felt a big weight off my shoulders and was happy to be rid of her. A minute later Tommy arrives and we are ready to hit the streets.
We walk across the road to MBK and get some mango and coconut juice and just take in all the sights, smells and vibe. There is no really hot girls walking past and neither of us feel in great vibe. We are new to the area, tired and just can’t seem to start approaching. We have come all this way and are holding back. We both agree we just need to get some momentum and it will happen and we just need to relax and enjoy where we are. We like this shopping center and can see ourselves spending more time here.
Out of the corner of my eye I see a very slim and hot slow walking girl with her eyes wondering – the perfect set. Without thinking I jog over to her and open in a generic way telling her I just noticed her and thought she looks very nice. She tells me she is Chinese and is here on holidays. We are very close in proximity, her eyes are glazed, and she makes no attempt to take her hand back after I shake it and keep holding it. The set is so on I feel like I could have kissed her but hold back so as not to burn the set. We exchange numbers and I go back to Tommy. “Fuck, I wish we had that one on video” he says. “That was the perfect set, she was just so available” I noticed that he gave me no credit for the success of the set and put it down to her being available. I can’t say I really disagreed with him.
I didn’t care if it was my amazing skill or her availability. I had just done my first approach and got my first number. Both our vibes had increased and we continued prowling the shopping center with a new vigor. Had a brief interaction with some Israeli girls that was friendly, but lacked attraction and we were here more for the Thais anyway. We walked over to the sky train and across to the next shopping center – Siam Center. This was much more modern and even more promising. We walked through trying to force IOI’s and just having fun. We both got a couple more numbers and then walked through to the next shopping center, Siam Paragon, which was even nicer again and more populated. “This is where we will be daygaming” I said.
Hotty and the Notty
My bread and butter for daygame has been single girls walking on their own. In the beginning I had tried to extend myself by approaching 2 sets, but never had any luck and it just seemed much harder work for less chance at results. However, recently I have number closed a few girls while there friend is there. The conditions are always the same and it’s almost easier than a single girl. When one girl is hot and the other is not – hotty and the notty. I stop them both and give them equal attention and then as I am about to say I like the hot one I give the notty all my attention and say. “I think your friend looks really nice.” And then give sexy eyes to the hotty. This works really well I think for the following reasons. It shows a lot of confidence to approach two girls and social savvy to pay attention to both equally, but make your attentions known that it’s the hot one that drew your attention. The notty enjoys being included and the hotty enjoys the ego boost in front of her friend. The hotty knows she’s hotter than her friend, but she likes some evidence that points it out and rubs it in her friends face in way that is not too mean.
I see a hotty and a notty walk past and jump on it. The set is fizzy and everything I mentioned above happened. I get the number and we find a spot for coffee in the massive food court area. I am high as a kite by now and can’t even sit and enjoy my coffee and have to approach every girl I am attracted to. I bring one back to the table and she makes herself a bit too comfortable and we have to make an excuse to leave since she is not going anywhere on her own cognizance and with her there I can’t approach. We do some more walking and both hit a wall from the jet lag and head back to our hotel. I rested for a while and then started to ping my online leads.