Best results of daygame ever yesterday, in terms of quantity and quality of number closes. It took me a long time to do my first approach. It’s about a 20 minute walk from my place in West End to the city center. I have done approaches in West End, but it’s not like a shopping strip, and while reasonably populated, people are generally walking in a hurry to get to a destination, and I often let a few go past because they were walking too fast or because there were other people too close. I am more comfortable when there are either a lot of people or none; when there is one or two people close by I get a bit self-conscious.
Yes, these are weasels. I make no excuses, I only write them here to recognise them. When I got into the city I had higher than normal approach anxiety, but from experience was able to draw on two facts that had been proven to me over and over again. 1. An approach opportunity would present itself to me that I was comfortable enough to act on, either through an IOI or just the way the woman looked. And 2. That once I did one the next ones would be easier.
I finally approached and it was a disaster, she was friendly enough, but obviously not into me. I lacked the motivation to stack assumptions and plough and just let her go. The next two weren’t much better and while my AA was better my vibe started to sink. Number 4 was a hit, she hooked and although she wouldn’t give me here number she did suggest we meet for a date in a few days time on Sunday at 5pm at the bar just next to where we were standing. This is probably better than a number as I give these sort of dates a 50% chance of turning up, where my numbers are much flakier.
Number 5 and 6 were nice interactions, but they didn’t hook and said they had partners when I went to number close. 7 was one of the bitchiest girls I had ever got into a conversation with from a daygame approach. She was happy enough for me to stay there and talk, but started giving me so many tests. Calling me rude for not introducing myself first by name, and saying I made assumptions instead of asking questions.
I handled these ok and didn’t tell her my name or stop making assumptions and I hoped the tests would stop, but as we got further into the interaction and talking about where she was from etc. she had this real sour disposition and negative attitude in her challenges disagreeing with every assumption I made. After 5 minutes, I just thought she’s a bitch and that’s making her unattractive to me. I said I would leave her to it without a number close. As I walked away she said with contempt. “You still haven’t given me your name”. “No I haven’t” I replied with a smile and walked away.
8 and 9 just weren’t into me, and I was about to call it a day when I got strong eyes from a hot young petite brunette walking past. I stopped her and she was French with only basic English and a very strong accent, she hooked by her body language, but didn’t ask me too many questions, I think the language barrier had something to do with that. I teased her about not being able to say H, but told her I loved it and then when she told me she was on her way home to her host family for dinner, I spiked sexually by poking her gently in the stomach and accusing them of not feeding her properly and she was too thin. She loved this and said how she can’t get fat no matter how much she eats. I FB closed her and she has since accepted.
I noticed a girl looking in the window of a strip club where the sign was “Dancers Wanted”. She had a good figure, but I couldn’t see her face. I followed her for a while, hoping to get in front of her so I could see her face before approaching, but she was walking fast and people were getting in the way and in the end I felt like I had followed her for too long and it was weird. But she had taken me to King George Square where I rarely approach and for some reason had this good feeling. Drinking my coffee and watching the big TV screen and casually keeping an eye out for prospects to approach, I locked eyes with this amazing tall young skinny blond with an exposed midriff that made my blood boil. It was on the dark side of twilight and we were at least 20 meters apart so hard to see each other that well and just kept staring at each other. She eventually smiled with even a little giggle at what just happened. That was all I needed, this girl was way too hot and young for me to do a cold approach, but warm approach like this was a gift from the heavens.
I jumped in front of her and she looked so young. I asked how old she was and if it was appropriate I hit on her and she said 21, so I said, that will do. We chatted and bantered and she hooked hard physically, crossing her legs and flicking her hair, and just the way she looked at me I could tell. She said she had to meet her friend to do some studies, but was in no hurry to leave me and we talked for a while. I was able to get her talking about her passion of music and gave away enough information about me to create comfort. We swapped numbers and she has already replied to my first ping. This is the hottest girl I have ever gotten a number from. If this leads to my first daygame lay, which I might add is well over due, it will all be worth it.
Met a girl at the lights and spent 5-10 mins talking as we crossed the bridge together, she didn’t really hook and I wasn’t that attracted to her, so I let her go and then had dinner with my friend. I was in a good mood and had the best leads ever from any day of daygame. Walking home after dinner there was a hot blonde 30 meters ahead of us walking towards us, she had her arm in a sling and I said to me friend as a sick joke. “Look, injured prey”. I made eye contact with her and when we got close enough I said. “Did you fall off your skateboard” That was enough to get into an interaction and number closed her. She was a very hot late 20’s German that was here staying with a host family teaching school kids. She didn’t really hook and hasn’t replied to my first text, but it was a bit of icing on the cake for a good day.