Just went to Coles supermarket in West End, Brisbane, and there were so many hot girls and I felt really bad by not approaching, but at the same time I didn’t feel dressed up enough or worthy. Part of this is because I think I am taking where I need to change my mind set to I am giving.
So what I could be doing is giving compliments to all girls I think are deserving. “Giving” is the key here. I am a confident man that feels good about themselves and knows I have a lot to give a woman. I also feel that my compliment to a woman is worth something. I have given thousands of compliments and I give them to girls all the time, women love it, and I’m just that sort of guy. I’m not really that sort of guy, but maybe if I start acting like that, I will become that.
But I feel like if I just give compliments then I am wasting an approach to get a number, but this isn’t true, because to date, I haven’t really been able to turn an I’m busy girl into a yes girl. I might be able to in the future, but I can tell by their eyes if they are interested and have time. In the future I can be more pushy, but today I am going to try and be a “giver”. Give compliments and if they don’t hook then let them go. I would have had a great time walking around Coles today and just giving at least three girls compliments. I didn’t need to expect anything, just wanting to “give” and increase my state.
I feel much better with this mindset. I’m going to make an MP3 with some music I like.
“I am a confident man that feels good about themselves and knows I have a lot to give a woman. My compliment to a woman is an awesome gift and will make her day special. I love making women’s lives better. I have given thousands of compliments and I give them to girls all the time, women love it, and I love being that that sort of guy. I love how good it feels to be a giver of positive energy and expect nothing in return. Women can pick up on this vibe and they know that I am different”
Later that day
I listened this mp3 while getting ready to go out sarging and then for the first 5 minutes of my walk until I saw a hot girl and ran across the road to approach her. This mp3 definitely helped my vibe and state.