I think for any daygamers over 35 this is probably a big one. There is a lot of work by Rollo Tomassi in the The Rational Male about men’s Sexual Market Value (SMV) peaking at about 36 and womens at about 23. I find this hard to believe that at 40 I have about the same SMV as a 25-26 year old girl, but after listening to Nick Krauser, also 40 and no more physically attractive than me, and the success he has with younger women I decided it might just be true.
I’m Just Not Into Girls My Age
I had been dating online and I was certainly not getting interest from 25 year old girls. I went out with some 35-40 year old women I met online, but they seemed a world apart from me, most of them seemed to have this weird agenda that dating couldn’t be fun and was really serious and I needed to know exactly what I wanted and be ready to settle down. I got on much better with the 22-27 year old girls I had met and dated from daygame. I just thought it was my immaturity, and I’m not discounting that idea entirely.
But I had also noticed young girls 18-20 that had boyfriends with them give me subtle eyes and show IOI’s. It rarely happened from single girls, only ones when their boyfriends were present. They must have felt a bit more protected and immune to an advance I might make. At first I thought this was a bit weird, but after it happened a few times I thought to myself this must be some sort of “daddy issue” thing with young girls being attracted to older men.
So now I am leaning to the mindset that this is the case and young girls are attracted to a more mature man, and it is only our feminized society that deems this as shameful. Here is my thinking; women have higher social intelligence than males, so it would stand to reason that in a democratic society like ours, women in their mental and emotional prime at the age 30-50 would have the largest influence on social and cultural values.
Not only do they understand better, but through this understanding they are able to manipulate them more to their benefit. This higher social intelligence equals power and even the most altruistic individuals in the world with that sort of power still end up in fortunate circumstances; it is human and good to protect yourself and your children.
The cultural decision makers of our society, women aged 30-50, don’t want 25 year old girls being socially at ease going out with 40 year old men for 2 reasons. 1. The married women don’t want their husbands lured away by these young more attractive women and 2. The ones that aren’t yet married would rather the males in their SMV prime and not taken by all the young girls.
So it is in the best interests of our societies cultural decision makers, women 30-50 years, to make it socially shameful for a 25 year old girl to go out with a 40 year old guy. I’m not saying this is a bad thing, I actually think this social construct creates a more stable society with partners being closer in age.
However, I am saying that this is not a biological rule. And biologically 25 year old women are attracted to 40 year old guys, or at least 35 year old guys, at least equal to if not more than guys their same age. And I’m also saying that with this knowledge I can “hack” through social constructs and approach women in their most attractive age range, 22-27, at the right time and place, and they will be attracted to me.
Welcome daygame. Daygame is the right time and place. I need to catch them on their own with some time to spare, dig through the social constructs to her underlying attraction for older men and bring her into a real life romantic fantasy. This doesn’t even have to be true of all women, just a percentage that it’s true for. But I do have to approach younger women and here my own social conditioning fails me. In Queensland, Australia, it’s legal for me to fuck girls over 16 and deep down I believe that I am making their lives better for giving them a romantic interlude with me. But more often than not I don’t approach a hot girl I see because I feel she is too young.
I think this is a weasel, because I have rarely approached and gotten close up to a girl and thought her too young. Also, while I get a lot of negative feedback from women for a variety of reasons, being too old is rarely one of them. I need to get over my social conditioning of not approaching young women. If I am in two minds ”oh, is she too young” I should approach anyway. If when I get close if she is too young, no one is keeping me there and I can just eject. In fact, that is what I have done a couple of times. “Sorry, I thought you were someone else.”
Anxiety in a Moralistic Costume
Me not approaching young girls is just approach anxiety in a moralistic costume. The reality is I want to fuck the arse off them and it’s legal. I’m just too afraid to go up and say hello because I am scared that she will reject me. Worse than this I am scared that she will think I am an idiot for considering that a hot young 20 year old would be with an old guy like me.
A recent example is a nerdy teen that looked about 19 walked past, tall, hot and just the type I would love to get naked and do bad things to. I would normally have let her go because she was too young, but I was “trying” to overcome my conditioning and approached her anyway. When I got close her face looked so young and I immediately asked how old she was, when she asked why, I said that I wanted to know if it was appropriate for me to be approaching her in the street. She said 19 and I said that is probably still too young and ejected.
At least I approached, so I get one out of ten. But what I hope to be able to do is approach and carry on my normal set as if she was 25-30. Recognise how young she looks and even allow myself to consider she might be underage, but plough anyway and set up the attraction. I’m not going to get arrested talking to an underage girl and my time is not that important that I can’t spend one minute setting up the set properly to at least give me a fighting chance.
It is almost impossible I would approach a 15 year old so legally age should be of no concern to me. Attraction should be my only concern and if a 16 year old is attracted to me then it is only my social conditioning based on a feminized societies agenda that makes me think I am bad or wrong for that.
It acknowledges my age if I get rejected for being too old. I must feel shame about my age, somewhere inside me feels like I am an expired product. The truth is I have taken on the feelings of women my age. The reality is I am far from an expired product. In fact I am in my prime, girls tell me I look 35, and that is a males prime. When I read the The Rational Male and all the talk about red and blue pill about our feminized society, I didn’t disagree, but I could relate 100%. I see now that was me taking the red pill and now my eyes are open, I can start to see how plugged in I was to our feminized culture.
No.1 red pill awakening. I took on womens feeling about their age of being over the hill at 40 for myself. What to do? “Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do.” ~Bruce Lee.
I give myself permission to approach any women I find sexually attractive regardless of age.