In 2015 at 39 years old I found myself single for the first time since my 20’s. After a week or two of little joy with online dating I decided I might need some education on the subject. Somehow I ended up with http://www.amazon.com/The-Natural-Effortlessly-Attract-Women/dp/0062089803 and it opened up quite a world for me.
I could see there was a strategy and mindset to attracting lovers. What attracted women was a man’s confidence, posture, speech, body language, fashion and grooming. And I knew a lot of what this book was saying was true because I had a friend in his 60’s, who had a new smoking hot wife in her 20’s, that had all these characteristics. He was one of the rare naturals born with this knowledge. I was not like that. I had to learn.
The next thing I found was the podcast daygame.com. These guys were successfully picking up girls in the middle of the day just by being honest and expressing their attraction with great confidence. What a revelation, I could do what was the most natural thing in the world and had done when I was a two year old and that is; see someone that is interesting and go up and communicate with them.
It finally all made sense, but walking up to girls in the middle of the day terrified me. I needed to do a bit more research. And here began the journey of my dating education. I read the following books:
The Art of Seduction – David Green
The Game – Neil Strauss
The Attraction Formula – Paula Janka
Models: Attract Women Through Honesty – Mark Manson
Daygame Nitro – Nick Krauser
I also watched videos:
Daygame Blueprint – Daygame.com
Speed Seduction – Ross Jeffries
Mystery Method – Mystery
And various youtube clips including Tom Torero and Nick Krauser. And some audio books by Gary Brodsky.
Most of these authors were quite mad, but their results with women were undeniable, so I decided to treat this like a research project and allow myself to be absorbed and consume as much information as I could without prejudice.
The following blog posts is the journey in my education in attracting women.